James Stewart Oneill

2008 - 2009
LocationWidnes
Age3 months
Cause of DeathGenetic Condition
Date of Birth16/12/2008
Date of Death20/03/2009
Visitors2,342 since 21/05/2009
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James was born a perfectly normal baby on 16th december 2008. he managed to spend his first 4 weeks at home enjoying Christmas with his mummy and daddy. However on the 16th January 2009 the midwife was concerned that James had not gained any weigh...infact he had lost it and that this was not normal at his age. We were admitted to Warrington hospital where at first they thought it was a feeding issue. they did various tests but all came back negative. After 4 weeks they transferred us to Alder hey neurosciences ward where the doctors were yet again confused as to what was causing james failure to thrive, reflux and floppiness. they opeted to do a muscle biopsy, skin biopsy, MRI and lumber puncture and after 3 weeks of living at Alder hey they transferred us back to warrington with a view to put a plan together so we could be at home while waiting for test reults. That plan was made and although anxious to know what was up with our baby boy we were keen to get some time at home with him....that never came James went up and down like a yo-yo and continued to either remain the smae weight or loose it...therefore the hospital kept moving the goals posts as to when we could go home. unfortunately James picked up a cold and became unwell.....we were told we were being moved to St James in Leeds but were not told why. On arrival there we were told that James had accute liver failure andthat since they were now 90% sure it was a form of mitochnodrial disease he was unable to have a liver transplant. Since they decided there was nothing they could do and James actually looked quite well they decided to transfer us 10 hours later back to warrington hospital where we were told James was going to die and what options there were. james managed to live for another week quite happy and content despite all the drugs etc he was being given...we even got a few giggles and smile off him. it was so hard knowing that his days were numbered. then on March 19th James was struggling to maintain his temperature and was put in a warming cot. i help him that day and just knew that come the morning he would gain his angel wings...people told me not to be silly but i just knew. A few minutes before james fell asleep he gave me the most lovely smile that I will never forget as if to say he was OK and sadly at 5.40 am 20th Marcg James gained hs wings.

Just an update: We did receive news of the condition that James had although it took several months. It was a really rare form of mitochondrial disease called MtDNA Depletion Syndrome. It is really really rare and there is a 1 in 4 chance with every pregnancy of this happening again....so lots of decisions to make.

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Angel Birthday

Happy birthday baby boy
So sorry i havent been on here in such a long time but i visit e.you often in your resting place. I miss you more and more and wish you were here to play with your little sister...she already can say brother.
Il be dwn to see you when I finish work.
All our love mummy and daddy

and baby sister ciara
xxxxx

Louise Oneill (Mummy)

December 16, 2011

Happy Birthday

If tears could build a stairway
and memeories a lane
I'd walk right up to heaven and bring home again!!

Happy 2nd Birthday Little Man, Sleep well

lots of huggles and kisses

Daddy, Mummy and Baby Sis Ciara

I Miss youxxxx

Louise Oneill (Mummy)

December 17, 2010

A BIRTHDAY HUG FOR YOU XXX

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Little Children

December 16, 2010

Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett

"Happy Birthday James "
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?

Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.

Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.

The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.

No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.

Joanne Mum To Alex And Ciara

December 16, 2010

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY JAMES

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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday James
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.

We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY JAMES
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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Sylvie Belanger

December 16, 2010

Congratulations on becoming a big brother!!!
Sending you lots of love xxx

Victoria McBride

December 1, 2010

Baby sister

thought id already written this.
Your baby sister is doing great and was born on Sept 24th weighing a tiny 5lb 12oz. She looks so much like you! I tell her about you every day. Sending you lots of love.
mummy, daddy and ciara

Louise Oneill (Mummy)

November 11, 2010

Love you

Hey there little man!!

Mummy isgoing into hospital to have your baby sister tomoz!! Please watch over us and i will bring her to see you soon. Your gonna be a big brother now so look out for ya little sis.

I miss you so much and think about you all the time.
All my love, now, always and forever.

Mummy and daddy
xxxxx

Louise Oneill (Mummy)

September 23, 2010

Hey baby boy,

Hope you are happy and safe in heaven, watch over your mummy and daddy they love you so much.

Sweet dreams and sleep tight xxx

Victoria McBride

July 2, 2010

Lots of Love

Hey baby boy
Just dropped by to say that I love you!
Mummy is really missing you lately and wishes she could hold you just one more time.
Hope you are happy up in heaven and please make sure that you continue to protect your baby sister who should be here in 16 weeks.
All my love now, always and forever.
xxxx

Louise Oneill (Mummy)

June 7, 2010
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